Well I didn't want to blog tonight cause I think once again my blogging may be becoming a little too frequent. But here I am, blogging away with my awesome double-jointed fingers. LOL don't 'ew' in your mind-_- I know that you did.
Something's been on my mind for the past hour or two and I just wanted to share. So I was talking to one of my 'bff 's tonight about stuff.
Let me ask you all a question.
If you don't have the intention of actually getting married to your boyfriend/girlfriend, would that be classified as 'leading them on'? The logic here is that you're in a relationship because you see yourself and that person progressing through these stages and eventually getting married.
To be honest, I haven't really thought this far. Am I supposed to?
So really in your opinion, do you think this would be called 'leading' someone on? I mean, how many of you in a relationship have actually thought that in 5-10years time, you'd be married with your present boyfriend/girlfriend, living happily ever after?
Gosh, thinking ahead so far into the future.. so much could happen, so many possibilities. Tis why I think that even if you haven't thought carefully about your future with your special someone, it wouldn't be called 'leading on'. Whats wrong with living life in the present and enjoying it? Why does everything we do need to be planned out so intricately? Just let it be man, let it be.
2:31am: Starting to sound like a hippy now, in the early hours of April fools day.
Peace out, brussel sprout.
Funny blog :)
ReplyDeleteIt's quite normal to find yourself questioning or doubting yourself early in a relationship. This isn't necessarily a bad thing, but it can be problematic if after a number of years together you are still unsure about any longer term commitment. In that situation it might be a better option to pull the plug sooner rather than later.
If it's any consolation, a random stranger thinks your attitude towards living in the now is the right one. The vast majority of problems that people worry about never eventuate anyway.
WQ
Yeh my blog is a pretty weird one! Haha thanks for taking the time to read it, and also for your insight on this matter. Feels good that a random stranger thinks that way! :)
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